How do I tell my little sisters that they don’t have to be fair to be pretty? Two little cousins, living in two different parts of the country Same age, very similar schooling Same problem Fairness Fairness in skin Problem? Issue? Flaw? One is dark-skinned, the other tan At the age of 10 Whitening powders […]
नेपालमा अहिलेसम्म कैयौ बलत्कारका घटनाहरु पत्रपत्रिका छापिए, समाचारमा आए | १३ वर्षका बालिकादेखि लिएर ८६ वर्षका महिलाहरु येस्ता अमानविय घटनाका शिकार बनेका छन्. घर–घरमा आमा बुवाको त्रास बढ्दो छ | बिहानको पत्रिका पढ्दै आमा भन्नुहुन्छ, “हेर त, हिजो अर्को महिलाको इज्जत लुटिएछ |” इज्जत लुटिएको महिला भनि हाम्रो समाजले बलात्क्रित महिलालाइ जनाउछ | येस्तो सम्बोधन […]
The article is based upon the literal English translation of Manusmriti: The Laws of Manu by G. Buhler. I asked, ‘Why?’ They said, ‘Because they said so.’ Red. Red. The archetypal ‘they’ argue that Menstrual Exclusion was a way to provide women with a much-needed monthly rest, given that she would often single-handedly cook and […]
Red. red. Red. The color crimson of the concoction of grains of rice and yogurt adorns the forehead of the Nepali community every Dashain. As this Dashain passes by, I raise a few hushed questions harping the color ‘red’. The time has come to honor the red, the color of our flag, the color of […]
This Dashain, if anyone asks you whether you’ve got a ‘brother’ or not, or if someone gives your parents blessings to get a ‘son’, smile at them and ask, ‘Am I not enough?’ Red. She is born. No no, it isn’t an easy race. The fusion of two X chromosomes in the womb of a […]
Period. Why does a woman in Nepali society have to announce her biological condition to the entire family? Why can she not decide for herself? Why is her privacy a matter of concern for the family? Period.
Her vagina is capable of magnificent artworks of life; it deserves a lot of admiration, not the burden of ‘prestige’. How is a woman’s virginity the pride of a family?
My lips. Nude lips. A little dark at the edges. Thin lips. Stares. Stares. A lot of stares. I quiver. Lipstick. Red. Pink. Maroon. Lipstick. Put on that lipstick. No. No. Not to look pretty. Not to add color. Color to the drained face. Drained by the stares. Lipstick. Lipstick to hide. Lipstick to divert. […]
“थाहा छ नानी, अनिसाको त बिहे भयो रे नि।” अनिसा, मेरो बाल्यकालको साथी, भेट जहिले त हुदैनथ्यो तर भेटेका बेला मा सङै माटाका भाडाकुटी बनाएर खेलिन्थ्यो। She got married about three months ago, at the age of 20. I asked her about her life after marriage. She smiled and said, “खै के भन्ने।” “You see, […]